Breast Cancer Survivor Brunch Recap
Last Thursday, breast cancer survivors gathered at the Carrie J. Babb Cancer Center at CMH to celebrate life with family and friends.
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“Paula Deen,” just happened to be in the neighborhood and dropped by to share her valuable, yet humorous insights on life, and of course how to properly frost a cake.
Robert McMillan, director of oncology services then shared the following with the group:
- “Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
- When in doubt, just take the next small step.
- Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
- Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
- You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree
- Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
- It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
- Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
- It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
- Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
- Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
- Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
- Burn the candles, use the nice sheets and wear the fancy lingerie
- Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
- The most important organ to keep clean is the brain.
- No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
- Forgive everyone everything.
- What other people think about you is none of your business.
- However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
- Believe in miracles.
- If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
- Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
- No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
- Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”
Thank you to the CJBCC staff as well as the CMH community relations team for sponsoring a phenomenal tribute to life!
For more information on the Carrie J. Babb Cancer Center at CMH, call 417-326-7200.








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